Ten Tips to Make It Fun, Educational and Memorable

Shopping with your kids can be a fun and educational experience—or a total headache, depending on how you approach it.

Whether you're running errands, grocery shopping, or doing some back-to-school shopping, involving your kids in the process can teach them responsibility, budgeting, and decision-making.

Here are ten tips to make shopping with kids a smooth, enjoyable experience they will always remember:

1. Set Expectations Before You Go

• Let them know the purpose of the trip (e.g., “We're getting groceries for the week” or “We need to buy a birthday gift”).
• Discuss behavior expectations—no running, no begging, and stay together.

2. Give Them a Job – YES!

• Younger kids: Let them help pick out fruits, scan items at self-checkout, or push the cart (with guidance).
• Older kids: Give them part of the shopping list and a budget to manage. But always know where they are in the store.

3. Teach Money Lessons

• Let them compare prices and understand value-for-money choices.
• Give them a small budget to buy a treat and help them decide wisely.
• Show them how sales or discounts work in a simple and fun way!

4. Turn It into a Game

• Play “find the best deal” with price comparisons.
• Challenge them to find a healthy snack option.
• Let them count items or track costs as you shop.

5. Avoid Shopping When They’re Tired or Hungry

• A well-fed, well-rested child is less likely to throw a tantrum.
• Bring snacks if you know the trip will be long.

6. Give Choices (Within Limits)

• Instead of saying “No,” offer alternatives: “We can’t get that candy, but you can pick a fruit or a granola bar.”
• Let them choose between two items to feel involved.

7. Keep It Short and Plan Ahead

• Stick to a list to avoid wandering and impulse buys.
• Avoid unnecessary sections (like the toy aisle) unless it’s part of the plan.

8. Use Shopping as a Teaching Moment

• Explain why you choose certain brands or ingredients.
• Talk about budgeting and needs vs. wants.
• Show them how to check expiration dates.

9. Reward Good Behavior

• Praise them for helping, staying calm, or making good choices.
• Consider a small reward like a sticker, a fun activity, or letting them make a dinner choice.

10. Be Patient and Flexible – PATIENCE is the key!

• Kids will be kids—expect distractions and delays.
• If meltdowns happen, stay calm and handle them with patience.

Do you usually shop with your kids? What’s the biggest challenge you face? Write it down so you can think about a few solutions, instead of ignoring the problem or letting it stay unresolved.

Perhaps, if they are over twelve, involve them in a conversation to see how it can be a happy experience for everyone!